DEAR AWAKENING WOMAN

If you're like me and most spiritual women today, you have already tried MANY techniques including therapy, workshops, holistic healing and more… Even for years or decades…

Yet deep down, you still feel weighed down by sadness, resentment, fears, and you find yourself emotionally reactive and frustrated by family patterns (no matter how clearly YOU try to communicate).

You know that you would be much farther ahead with your own dreams and goals if only you could finally be free from all the resentment, guilt, shame, judgment…

If only you didn’t have to work so hard to protect your energy from toxic people!  Because it’s exhausting and stressful.

The problem with all those things you’ve already tried that either haven’t worked, or only for a short while, is that they didn’t get to the ORIGINAL CAUSES of these patterns. You need to heal your mother wound and father wound too.

• In your childhood
• In utero
• From your mother’s or father’s ancestral lineage – or both
• Or from a past incarnation (unresolved karmic patterns).

How many of these describe you and your life today?

• I am an overgiver and am often exhausted and stressed because it feels like MY needs and desires are often on the back burner.
• I have a hard time setting boundaries and there are people in my life who “push my buttons.”
• My income and financial nest egg are not what I’d like them to be. Even when I manifest “extra money,” it seems to go right back out again.
• I feel like the black sheep of my family, or in many social situations.
• My mother was emotionally / physically unavailable.
• My mother was (or still is) judgmental, controlling, narcissistic.
• (If I am a mother) I feel I didn’t fully bond with my child, or I am estranged from, or lost, 1 or more children.
• (If I am not a mother) I wanted to become a mother but never had the opportunity and now it’s too late.
• I have a hard time relaxing and receiving. I feel like I constantly have to be producing, whether that’s cleaning, helping others, earning money. I feel guilty if I try to just “do nothing.”
• I feel disconnected from my body, from pleasure, from joy.
• My spirituality and intuition are inconsistent. Some days I feel blessed and tuned in, others I feel like “Is anybody listening?”

DEFINITION

“The Mother Wound consists of all emotional, mental and spiritual pain caused by unresolved issues with your mother or mother figure, and/or by your own losses regarding you as a mother and your disconnection from The Divine Mother.” – Sage Taylor Kingsley
 

SYMPTOMS 

How is your Mother Wound(s) still negatively affecting your life today? 

• HEALTH: Poor health or chronic health challenges – even though you take good care of yourself and want to feel better. You feel disconnected from your own body or frustrated by limitations.
• FINANCES: Financial ups and downs. Difficulty saving money or paying down debts, no matter what you do or how hard you work. Income ceilings. Money leaks: it comes in then goes right back out, no matter what your income is. You feel uncomfortable with all the work of managing your money.
• LOVE & MARRIAGE: Alone/lonely. You’ve been settling for relationships that are less than what you really desire and deserve. You are wondering if you will ever find lasting soulmate love or is this all you’ll ever have? Or you are in a good relationship but there is little sex and actual passion lately.
• FRIENDS / FAMILY: Imbalanced. You may feel like a loner. You have a pattern of betrayals & disappointments from other women (symptomatic of the Sister Wound, which is related to Mother Wound). You have acquaintances but few CLOSE friends. You have a pattern of overgiving. You feel like you maintain 90% of the relationship and like others are the “limit setters.”
• LIFE BALANCE/BOUNDARIES: Difficulty saying no. You are a people pleaser, or an empath, energetically drained by the “energy vampires” in your life. Always going and doing, not playing or relaxing enough. Always putting others first.
• ENERGY & SPIRITUALITY: Inconsistent intuition. You pray and meditate but don’t get clear answers. You feel disconnected from the Divine Feminine and your ability to RECEIVE, be and flow. Overly yang (masculine) in your energy. A sense you are not from this planet. You long to connect more with Mother Earth and may often feel ungrounded.
  
  As you can see, your unhealed mother wounds have been affecting EVERY area of your life. Fortunately, you do not need to struggle with this any longer! 

The Mother Wound is also about your disconnection from The Divine Mother, from the sacred feminine, from your own body, and from the Earth. 

I’m Sage Taylor Kingsley, and I’ve had the challenge, and now the joy, of healing not just one but TWO Mother Wounds.

I was adopted just days after my birth, and my birthmother found me and re-entered my life when I was 21. 

“Beautiful!” you may think. 

But not every reunion story is hearts and roses. 

My birthmother being in my life resulted in my adoptive mother DISOWNING ME for many months.

And my adoptive mother has narcisstic tendencies. When I grew up, I often felt like I was the parent, and I seldom had my emotional needs met. I had to illegally get a job at age 13 to help pay the rent. 

Being an adoptee made me feel like I had no real family, no one place where I really belonged. 

And this sense of always being an outsider, and the deep-seated underlying lack of deservingness affected my friendships, my love relationships, even my health.  

On my 50th birthday, my birthmother was supposed to meet me in a restaurant for an intimate special lunch. She did not show up. 

I spent years in grief, often dreaming about this unbelievably painful rejection, “proof” that I was not lovable, that she would never love me enough. 

The devastation from being stood up – on my birthday! – crushed my spirit for years, and I had to heal that wound, along with the original abandonment wound, and the many wounds from my childhood and relationship problems with my adoptive mother and family. 

Today, the word that best describes how I feel about all of this is:

LIBERATED!

After my Mother Wounds were healed deeply enough, completely enough, at the original cause root level, I found that my health vastly improved. 

I am now able to have harmonious very loving relationships with both of my mothers, and I have exponentially more ENERGY which I can focus on moving forward with my PURPOSE and my PROSPERITY. 

I’ve had the honor of helping private clients heal their Mother Wounds, and also all their ancestral and karmic patterns (this may include Father Wound, Sister Wound, past-life traumas).

And in EVERY CASE, they felt that this healing was one of the most important decisions they ever made, one of the best gifts and investments they could ever give to themselves – and to their children.
 

You have to heal the ENERGETIC PATTERNS at the original root causes, and those are in childhood,
in utero, and even before this lifetimes.